{"id":9873,"date":"2015-09-08T11:18:14","date_gmt":"2015-09-08T15:18:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dougbittinger.com\/thoughts\/?p=9873"},"modified":"2025-04-21T01:56:38","modified_gmt":"2025-04-21T05:56:38","slug":"learning-what-i-already-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/learning-what-i-already-know\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning What I Already Know"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_9874\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9874\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/Mind_Compartments-of_Santiago-Caruso.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-9874 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-content\/uploads\/Mind_Compartments-of_Santiago-Caruso.jpg\" alt=\"storing (and misplacing) what we know\" width=\"300\" height=\"215\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9874\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">metalonmetalblog .blogspot.com<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Because I get into a lot of social media stuff, in addition to the traditional reading I do, I come across a lot of \u201cinspirational\u201d quotes and sayings.\u00a0 Most times, these do not reveal to me some previously unknown celestial truth.\u00a0 Instead, they remind me of something I know but have been ignoring.\u00a0 Sometimes I just misplace these nuggets of wisdom, other times I deliberately tuck them out of the way because I&#8217;d rather wallow in my inadequacy for a while.\u00a0 That is not a good thing, but we all do it from time to time.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Then I come across some gem that reminds me that no one is perfect, or God is happy to forgive, or it&#8217;s okay to be sad or angry as long as we don&#8217;t unpack and live there.\u00a0 A light flips on in a dark corner of my brain and I think, \u201cOh, that&#8217;s good, I like that.\u00a0 I need that.\u201d\u00a0 Then it occurs to me that I already know that.\u00a0 Since I already had that bit of wisdom, why did I stuff it in a box and put it on the top shelf of my mind&#8217;s closet?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not a psychologist, so I can&#8217;t adequately answer that, but I suspect that some of us are wired to want to punish ourselves for things and to be negative.\u00a0 Sometimes that&#8217;s a learned response.\u00a0 And when we encounter someone who is eternally happy and effervescent, we just want to throttle them because no one can possibly be so happy all the time.<\/p>\n<p>It does amaze me however that we (or at least I) do sometimes take these truths that will bring us happiness through an improved view of life and hide them from ourselves.\u00a0 What&#8217;s THAT all about?\u00a0 So it&#8217;s a good thing someone else is tossing these out there for me to stumble over and remind me of what I already know.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Because I get into a lot of social media stuff, in addition to the traditional reading I do, I come across a lot of &ldquo;inspirational&rdquo; quotes and sayings.&nbsp; Most times, these do not reveal to me some previously unknown celestial truth.&nbsp; Instead, they remind me of something I know but have been ignoring.&nbsp; Sometimes I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/learning-what-i-already-know\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Learning What I Already Know&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[56],"class_list":["post-9873","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","tag-mental-health"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9873","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9873"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9873\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20056,"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9873\/revisions\/20056"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9873"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9873"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pineymountainfoster.org\/thoughts\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9873"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}