You Can’t Have That

Can't Control everything_Let Life HappenMarie drove our truck to work, as usual, but I needed some stuff so I borrowed Mom’s car.  I wasn’t going to be hauling lumber or anything.

I wanted a surge-suppressor, power strip for my new desk. I’d found one on Amazon: a Belkin model with 8 outlets spaced so at least one will work with a power brick and not cover another plug and it has a 90° wall-plug so it will allow the desk to sit closer to the wall. Good price too, but will take a week or so to get here and I have to pay shipping unless I order $35.00 worth of stuff to get the free shipping. I didn’t need $35 worth of stuff and it really rankles me to pay $6.00 shipping on a $9.00 item.

I looked on the (cringe) Wal-Mart web site. It showed a 6 outlet model of the same brand. It was on sale (being closed out, quantity limited) but it showed the Newport store carried it and had some in stock.

Wal-Mart was my first stop. Continue reading “You Can’t Have That”

Life Is Too Short For Regrets

regretsRegrets do serve a purpose.  When we regret having done something, we learn from it so we can move on and do better.  It’s when we decide to pitch a tent in those regrets and live there that they become destructive.

No matter how bad we messed up, wallowing in our sorrows will not help us, or anyone involved in the situation.  Reparations may be due: make them.  Apologies may be required: offer them.  Then move on.  At some point we have to lay aside regrets and get on with the business of doing better. Continue reading “Life Is Too Short For Regrets”

Battling Cable Clutter with a USB Hub

I recently acquired a small desk in our spare room on which to write. I had been using the dining room table after I abandoned the office in my workshop – for a number of reasons. My primary tool is, of course, my computer. I use a laptop. To this I connect a mouse, a printer, and an external hard drive. These are permanent residents. I also have another external hard drive, several flash drives, and a camera that are connected as needed. All of these use USB cables to connect. My laptop has 3 USB ports.

Without a USB HubTwo of these are on the right hand side, about midway back, the third is on the left near the back corner where the power connector is.

Not only do I not have enough ports for everything, but the two on the right side seriously mess up the area I use to run my mouse. I tend to lay my arm across those two cables, pulling them down and causing the connection to flicker. I was afraid if that continued I might crack the mother board. There has to be a better way. Continue reading “Battling Cable Clutter with a USB Hub”

I’m Just Chicken About Chickens

Sometimes I feel like I’m the only person on the planet who is not raising chickens. Everywhere I look are articles about raising chickens, plans for chicken coops, chicken tractors, chicken feeders, pictures of chickens, and people talking about how wonderful it is to have really fresh eggs.

chickensThat last part is what comes closest to hooking me. I love eggs. We eat eggs for breakfast twice a week, and use them in cooking. We’d eat them more often if they weren’t getting so expensive. I read that the commercial egg farms have been hit hard by avian diseases that required them to kill off significant amounts of their flocks. That kind of thing will drive the price up, and when this sort of thing happens, the prices generally do not come back down. It’s like the delivery services adding fuel surcharges because fuel was so expensive, but when fuel costs came back down the surcharges stayed in place. We will just be eating fewer eggs in our house now. Unless I raise chickens.

I’ve given it some thought too. Read More …

Be Quiet: Hear What is Important

Be quiet and hear what is importantIn a world that is filled with an increasing amount of noise, it gets harder and harder to hear what is important.

The world has always experienced catastrophe, but in our media-laden, techno-connected lives we now have the privilege of knowing about every catastrophe, anywhere, as soon as it happens.  Also every unjust plight, every instance of unusual criminal activity, and every scandal involving persons of note.

This could be a good thing if the media used it to promote the good that goes on in the world, but they don’t.  Occasionally they give a nod to someone who did something positive, but the lion’s share of what is broadcast is negative.  This, naturally, has a negative impact on our emotional well being.

It is a good thing to have factual information on which to base our opinions.  But we should never turn our brains over to the media or worldly pundits and say, “Just tell me what to think.” Continue reading “Be Quiet: Hear What is Important”

The Writer’s Corner, A Work Space of One’s Own

Writers DeskI have always said that a serious writer needs a work space of one’s own in which to write. For one thing you need a place that is out of the main flow of family life where distractions abound. For another, if you work on the dining room table, you are always having to pack up your stuff and move out of the way. This is not much of an issue if you only write short pieces and have little in the way of notes to keep up with. But if you write longer or complex pieces – or a novel – you use a good bit of material you must pack away every time you pack off.

I have an office of my own in the building that is my woodshop: an old mobile home a 100 foot walk from door to door. That room served as my office for furniture making: communicating with customers, designing furniture pieces, ordering parts and materials, bookkeeping, and file storage. It also had a mini kitchen (tiny fridge, toaster oven, and a coffee maker) so I didn’t have to trudge through snow, rain, and mud to get home for lunch (and mess up the house).

This had many advantages. Continue reading “The Writer’s Corner, A Work Space of One’s Own”

The After-Christmas Blues

antidepressant and Christmas BluesPsychologists say that after-Christmas Blues (or post-holiday depression, in their nomenclature) is a fact of life for an increasing number of people each year.  The reasons for this include:

  • Unmet expectations
  • Deflation
  • Guilt for over-indulgence
  • Unfavorable realizations
  • Anxiety over impending normalcy

Unmet expectations result from not getting something you want.  It may have been a single extravagant item or hoping for a bevy of techno gadgets and receiving socks and underwear instead.  It can also be a less concrete expectation: perhaps you hoped that, this year, the whole family would get together in the spirit of love and peace and no fist fights would break out. Continue reading “The After-Christmas Blues”

Why Christmas is on December 25th

Jesus, birth, December 25thDo you know that Jesus was not born on December 25th?  Or in December at all?  Americans tend to think of the birth of Christ as being in winter, envisioning Joseph trudging through snow with Mary on a donkey.  But all accounts of the announcement of Jesus’ birth state that there were shepherds abiding in the fields with their flocks.  Winter in Israel tends to be cold and rainy.  Sometimes it snows.  Shepherds would live in the fields with their flocks during the fair-weather months of late spring, summer and early fall, but in winter Jewish shepherds sought shelter for themselves and their flocks.  They would not have been abiding in the fields during the time we call December.

Why December 25th?

The choice of December 25, made around 273 AD, reflects a convergence of pagan gods and the church’s identification of God’s son with the celestial sun.  December 25 already hosted two other similar festivals: natalis solis invicti (the Roman “birth of the unconquered sun”), and the birthday of Mithras, the Iranian “Sun of Righteousness” worshiped by many Roman soldiers.  Seeing that pagans were already exalting deities with some parallels to Jesus, church leaders decided to commandeer the date and introduce a new festival.[1] Continue reading “Why Christmas is on December 25th”

Created In Our Own Image

created in Gods image
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The Bible tells us that God created mankind in His own image. What, exactly, that means has always been an issue of debate. But one thing that is agreed upon is that God created mankind with a free will: the ability to choose his own course.

This was done for a very specific reason: so mankind could choose to love God. Had He created us pre-programmed to revere Him, to worship Him, we would not love him. Love cannot be demanded from us. Love comes freely from the one who loves, or it is not love.

So we have the freedom to choose. But, in regards to God, the only choice we have is whether or not we will love Him. If we love Him, we are willing – nay, we are EAGER – to obey Him for we know that He wants only the best for us, and He knows so much more than we do, so we trust Him to guide us. Continue reading “Created In Our Own Image”

Six Reasons You Should Stick with Legacy Publishing

high speedThere is a tendency for authors, especially new authors, to discount the value of the established and venerated publishing houses: those establishments that have for, in some cases, hundreds of years provided the readers of the world with quality materials to entertain, inform, and enlighten.  But suddenly the reverent awe in which we have always held these firms is being besmirched, like graffiti on a church, by a pair of hooligans: a bratty upstart called Self Publishing and his sidekick Indie Press.  Oh, sure; their cousin Vanity Press has been prostituting herself for almost as long as the Big Houses have been around, but she pretty much kept to herself and offered little threat to them.

Self and Indie, however, have managed to lure a sizable contingent of writers into their posse with promises of instant money and stardom.  But, here are six reasons why authors should stick with the brick and mortar giants of legacy publishing. Read More